Peaches & Cream

I am another blog, another person, another statistic. I happen to be female, or male. So if we should meet. If our paths should cross, can I really talk to you? Can I talk to you, say, about art? About history, love & wisdom? Can I talk to you about life? And if I did, would you listen to me pure in heart & mind? Would you answer me with what you believe, in total trust & love? Would you speak to me; this person speaking to you, as yourself or as some sex crazed animal of society’s creation?


The problem is, that most people you encounters in our society come with a preconceived notion of the order of things; that male come to female, male make female his, male King Cong. Ha Ha! The other half of it is: female grab Cong, female make him husband, female win a Cong. Yay! This is a perfectly correct order, in their heads. And so how easy it is that a simple chat or conversation can turn into a battle of sexes. So what do you do? Stay out of contact with guys or girls? All of them!! That’s impossible! They are half the community! Half the world! The other half of human! You can’t just ignore it! So again, what do you do? How can you enter into a simple friendship with such a King Cong man, or a Cong seeking woman who maybe are in fact good, intelligent people, capable of having the most rewarding conversations who just happens to need a little rattling of the skull to get things strait, how do you talk to them without having to battle head on for your self? Well the sensible answer would be to get the message across that what you are thinking is not an option, straight off from the beginning & stand still in your position. But if you should do that, Cong or his seeker would back off for a while. They would relax, letting their true self show, away from any sex related issues & just as you proceed to become your self with this new friend, the jibs & insinuations start. Smack! Right back to square one & again, now what! Now loosing a friend looks like a possibility but you don’t want to create an enemy & at the same time you don’t want your limits invaded like that. So what would the perfect behavior with Cong or his seeker be? Chuck ‘em out? No good, a life time of chucking sounds too wearing. Get the message across again then, very clearly! So you do, and this time, they were candid, you had to be precise, so Cong or seeker act hurt & slowly start to back away. But this time they know for sure they’re not getting what they came for. So this time they back away for good. Problem solved; unless, of course, they put it in their heads as a challenge but that’s another colorful parade! And is the matter really resolved! Does it really, absolutely have to be this way?

In the end I implore all of you; males & females, sitting in front of your screens who feel an echo of this problem in your lives to rattle your heads real hard for a few minutes. Lighten up & wake up, life isn’t just about sex & coupling! Life is bigger than you can imagine. How about starting to learn how not to waste it?